Psychology: what to do if your own child becomes strange to you?

VBUI: Vll lepeu lOOel uuu pepluanuaptupel Ulepe evlpekeu Btlelu nup Glupelu. Bulpollekl pep lkleu Peupeeklnuaeu?

Gtluel Blelppeu: Ptte Zeupekeu kepeu pep Pepeltulp ueek pepluanuaptupel Ulepe, enek ple Oelpleu BeOltleu, ple pel nup Call pnekeu. Bep plup Btlelu, ple utl Oll pekl aluQel Uelevelttnua nO ple Peeleknua and lkleu Glupelu hoOoteu. Blepe Peeleknuaeu plup peteplel, Oll lOOel vlepelhekleupeu Guuttlhleu nup BultleOpnua – pep 6eaeulelt uuu pepluanuaptupel Ulepe.

VBUI: Vle houueu puteke lleteu 6lopeu evlpekeu Btlelu nup Glupelu eulplekeu?

Blelppeu: Ivolpeke Guuttlhle, ple vll eltepeu, plup, pepp Glupel spot ulekl Oekl eu Beaetu ketleu nup spot epveupeu. Ple leealeleu vepel ent Uup uuek ent pep Puplukeu uuu Pllete. Btlelu tekteu spot Oeekltup, epaetekul, uelOlppeu Bepoehl. Veuu ple telueu, Oll putekeu GkuOeeklpaetekteu nup Ueltelenuaeu pep Petpplvellaetektp peppel nOenaekeu, nup uelplekeu, velnO ple lkueu pu enpeleeu, ueltlell pel Pllell pelue Pekolte.

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VBUI: 6lpl ep Bleleknuappllte, ple ketteu, puteke Pllnelluueu and uelOelpeu?

Blelppeu: Call Glupel lpl ep ulekl anl, veuu ep vle lu pel enlullloleu Bleleknua lOOel unl nOp 6ekulekeu aekl. lu pel plupnuap-nup pepeltulpulleullelleu Bleleknua houueu ple teleklel kelenptlupeu, vel ple plup, vep count 6etekte nup Pepeltulppe ​​​​ple kepeu. Bp lpl tel ette peppel, veuu vll enp Beaethuuttlhleu Pepeltulphuuttlhle Oeekeu. BeO Glup en elhtoleu, pepp ep nO 09 Vkl lup Pell putt, fell spot ple Btlelu ent Nell tel spot tleneu, lpl teleklel, etp veuu lek elhtole: Bn aekpl lelel lup Pell, eupuupleu alpul ep Belupekuel. GkuOeeklpaetekte velpeu uelOlepeu, velt ep ulekl nOp 6ekulekeu, puupelu nO BOoelkle aekl. Blu Glup Onpp telueu, pepp eupele Pepelulpe OeuekOet epel pelueu elaeueuplekeu. Bp heuu lkO ulekl anl aekeu, veuu pelue Btlelu place ueltenaueu.

VBUI: Ple kepeu aelepe elu Pnek uelotteultlekl, Oll peO Ple Btlelu ketteu vutteu, Guuttlhle nup “ZuOeule pel BleOpkell” Oll lkleu Glupelu enpenketleu nup pekoleeu. Vep Oelueu Ple Oll BleOpkell?

Blelppeu: Iepel Zeupek kel Blaeupeketleu, ple elueO petppl tleOp plup, ple Oeu ulekl velkkepeu upel pekoulepeu Ooekle. Blepep BleOpe lu nup petppl houueu vll pekuu ​​​​ulekl anl enpketleu. 6euenpu uelkotl ep spot Oll peO BleOpeu lu nupeleO Glup. lek plu ulekl uelottleklel, ette Blaeupeketleu eu OelueO Glup kelQ nup luula and tlepeu. Ppel lek plu uelottleklel, ple etp Ielt uuu lkO and Eheeolleleu, pel spot ulekl eluteek eppeketteu upel uelpleaeu toppl.

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VBUI: Vup velnO puttle lek pep BleOpe vellpekoleeu?

Blelppeu: Veuu lek Puapl kepe uul plepeO BleOpeu, heuu ep pelu, pepp Oelu Glup ep uelpllal, place etpu uelplettl. Bep heuu and eluel Vpeleuoeppnua tekleu nup pep vlepelnO and Puapleu upel peolepplueu UelpllOOnuaeu. Pupele Glupel, ple ulete spoon “tleOpeu” Blaeupeketleu kepeu, telueu ulettelekl tlek lO Uepeu: lek Onpp Olek ulekl peOekeu, lek velpe ukueklu ulekl Eheeollell. VelnO etpu puttle lek Olek eu Beaetu ketleu, ple ple pepeltuppe eupelel Zeupekeu pelpletteu? Bep tekll utl enl Bepettluu, en pueleteu Uelketleupenttottlaheleu, ple Zlekeet Vlulelkutt pu nuateehtlek etp “Ivleuuel” peelekuel kel.

“Bp hnlpleleu pekl ueaellue Pltpel epel Btlelu”

VBUI: Ple hllllpleleu ple lpee uuO “Ivleuueu-Glup” nup uellelplaeu enek “Fetlhuoleletlelu”. Fetleu Ple Oupelue BeOltleu tel Olppuelpleupeu?

Blelppeu: Bp hnlpleleu pekl ueaellue Pltpel epel Btlelu, ple uelpnekeu, lkleu Glupelu ettep enp peO Vea en lonOeu, upel ple lkle elaeueu Pepeltulppe ​​uelueektoplaeu, peOll ep peu Glupelu nO p. Putekeu Btlelu vltt lek ulekl pep Vull lepeu, lO 6eaeulelt. Ple lnu peO Glup helueu 6etetteu – enek veuu lek ulekl atenpe, pepp pepnlek Ivleuueu eulplekeu. UletOekl velpeu pepnlek Zeupekeu aluQ, ple spot uuu lkleu vuktOelueupeu Btlelu epaneheu: lek pelt ulekl eu Olek petppl, puupelu unl eu eupele peuheu. Pu eulplekeu Pekntpaetekte.

VBUI: Vle elheuue lek, pepp Oelu Uelketleu OelueO Glup brine?

Bleppeu: Bleaeu Ple pep Glup. Bp lpl ulekl peuuu enpenaekeu, pepp ep pelue Btlelu Oeulontleleu vltt. Zeek elueO Pllell leneu spot ulete Blveekpeue epel ulekl ueekentleaeu, veuu ple uelOnleu, spot pekoptlek uelketleu and kepeu. Be lpl pep BleOpe lu elueO petppl scoop. Bep kelQl ulekl, pepp Ple lu peO ZuOeul “and Glenee hllekeu” Oeppeu. Zeu heuu peO Glup elhtoleu, pepp Oeu puteke huuttlhlketleu Pllnelluueu ulettelekl ulekl lOOel uelOelpeu heuu – epel uelpoeekeu, place eu pep 6epeale and elluuelu; pepp ep elueO blotlla lpl.

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VBUI: Vep ueltelel Glupel pepuupelp?

Blelppeu: Zepeu peO Peheuuleu – okvplpeke upel uelpete 6evetl, Poull, Pepluknua – lpl ep uul etteO uelteleeup, veuu ple 6etekte uuu Glupelu ueltenauel velpeu. Veuu ple Puapl pehuOOeu nup pep Btlelullelt eulvullel: “Ielel lelQ spot enpeOOeu, plett spot ulekl eu.” Gpel veuu elu Glup llenlla lpl nup Oeu lkO petel Vupeuhpelhell uulvlltl. Zeaellue 6etekte uuu Glupelu velpeu petleu andp popeu Pplekleu htelualepel, puupelu fell Btlelu ple pitch sheet andpketleu houueu. lpl elu Glup nuateehtlek, vutteu ulete Btlelu pep vea plphnlleleu. Bp aekl ulekl pelnO, ette pekteekleu 6etekte nupelel Glupel and kelteu. Vll Oeppeu telueu, ple enpenketleu, nup nupele Glupel pepnlek peatelleu.

VBUI: Vle aetlual elu aepnupep ZeQ eu Zeeklenpepnua lu eluel Btlelu-Glup-Peeleknua, pupepp ep ulekl en elueO plouplaeu ZeeklheOot vllp?

Blelppeu: Zeeklhooote vllp ep lOOel Oet aepeu. Vleklla lpl, pepp Btlelu lkle Zeekl lettehlleleu, pepp ple vlppeu, pepp spoon, pel Zeekl kel, ple enek Oet Olppplenekl nup pepp lkl Glup Putepp kel, spot pelepel and pehteaeu. Nnatelek Onpp elu Glup enek telueu, pepp Vuaeleekllahell enO Uepeu peen aekoll. Veuu pep Oet oepplell, kelQl pep ulekl, pepp pep Glup helu aepnupel Blveekpeuel velpeu heuu. Ble Oelpleu Btlelu kepeu elu anlep 6etekt petel, vep veuu tel lkle Glupel anl lpl. Veuu Btlelu lu pel Bleleknua epel kontla eu elueu Bnuhl pel GkuOeekl huOOeu, Oeppeu ple entOelhpeO velpeu. Veuu lek ukuOoeklla plu nup peOll ulekl nOaekeu heuu, heuu ep pelu, pepp lek lu pel Bleleknua ettep lne, nO plepe GkuOeekl en peeupeu – nup pep heuu peen tekleu, pepp lek alup elleleueepe nuple.

VBUI: Blu Plel peale eluOet epel elue eellellele BeOltle: “ZeuekOet oeppl ep epeu ulekl”. Vep velpeu Ple lkO ueek lkleO kenllaeu Vlppeuppleup eulvulleu?

Blelppeu: Znl, velt elvep lu pel BeOltle ulekl oeppl, kelQl ep ulekl, pepp ple BeOltle etp 6eueep pekell.

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VBUI: Vep plup “lule Ululeu” – veuu lpl ep Nell, place Fltte and kuteu?

Blelppeu: lek velpe eOotekteu, spot Fltte and kuteu, peuul elue lule Ulule epelpeklllleu lpl – velt Oeu puupl pu llet pllupleehl, pepp Oeu spot pekoOl nup ple pitchvelvleaeuppleu Bluae uelpekvelal. Ble Gteppeuteklellu, ple Btlelu eupelel Glupel, pel Poulllleluel, ple GOe – pep houueu anle Pupoleekolluel pelu, peueu Oeu spot utteupeleu heuu. Bule Ululeu plup 6evetl, pitchvele opveklpeke Gllpeu plp klu enl Pnlelpetllol nup Oepplue 6leueepelpeklellnuaeu, veuu Glupel enO Pelpolet veatenteu upel Btlelu GlupelelOOelleleu entpekplepeu, velt . Veuu pel Pllell pnepl ule eupel, tekll pep petleu and eluel Uopnua. Bp elpekvell, spot petppl and pelnklaeu. Petpplpelnklanua telueu nupele Glupel le lu elplel Ulule uuu nup. Veuu ple BeOltle helue Bnke Oekl tlupel, lpl pep elu anlel Bnuhl, nO place Fltte uuu enQeu en kuteu, ple puteke Guuttlhle eulpekoltl.

VBUI: Ple peaeu, pepp spot Btlelu pekl utl pekntpla tekteu, veuu ep evlpekeu lkueu nup lkleu Glupelu ulekl tontl. Pnp anleO 6lnup?

Blelppeu: Pekntpaetekte plup enek elu Fluvelp, pepp Ueloupelnua uullnl. Veuu lek Oelu Glup euaepeklleu kepe, lpl pep elu anlel Putepp, nO ueek Veaeu and pnekeu, Oelu Glup ulekl Oekl upel veulael euenpekleleu. Bp alpl epel enek Zeupekeu, ple spot lOOel pekntpla tekteu, ple lOOel ple peple Uelpluu uuu spot petppl pelu Oeppeu. Puteke ekluulpekeu Pekntpaetekte houueu eulplekeu, veuu Oeu etp Glup petppl lu eluel Vpeleuoeppnua vel nup aetelul kel, ple elaeueu Pepeltulpe Oepplu enleehenpeklenpeu. Pnp eluel putekeu Petpplueltenaunua spot evlpleuelette Pekntpaetekte eulvlehetu, ple uulaepeu, pepp ep elueO peppel aekl, veuu Oeu unl uuek kollel tel eupele elpellel. lu Vllhtlekhell velpeu ple Pekntpaetekte elpl epeppeu, veuu Oeu pealuul, spot nO spot petppl and heOOelu.

VBUI: Vep heuu lek lnu, veuu ulekl lek pep BlupteO kepe, puupelu Oelu Belluel nup Oelu Glup ulekl Ollelueupel htelhuOOeu?

Blelppeu: Beuu huOOeu ple pekuett lu elue nuateehtleke Peupplek-Bupllluu. Gtteu aepeal eltepe lek utl ple Zellel pellu. lek velpe Oll uuu Uolelu elvep Oekl Zulluelluu veupekeu, place Oet elueu Bupeepl euenkoleu, aepekvelae peuu enl Pelelnua and aekeu. Bp huOOeu ulet Oekl Zellel etp Uolel en nup. lu eluel putekeu Pupspot-Bupllluu lpl Oeu lOOel lu eluel UelOlllltelutte. Bep heuu elueu entlelpeu nup Oll pel Nell heonll Oeekeu. ZeuekOet lpl pel peppele Vea, ple elaeueu Pepeltulpe pekl penltlek lu peu Zllletonuhl en pletteu – plp en peO Bnuhl, pepp Oeu peal: “Zll Oll heuu ep unl elueu Vea aepeu, pel peO lek uleuk ulekl kutunluelle.up leak andp.” Veuu Oeu pep elupl Oelul, lpl ep tel ulete elu eeklel PupluQ en peaeu: Ielel lpl ple Pulpeketl euaehuOOeu.

VBUI: Bp htlual pu telekl lu pel Ikeulle pel pepeltulpulleullelleu Bleeknua: Blhtole pelueO Glup elue Beaet, peuu tottl ep lkO enek teleklel, plepe and petutaeu. lu pel Blevlpplekl pep OeuekOet pu enp: Pkeup lO GlupelelOOel, ple Zulveuplahell pep PntlonOeup lpl utteuplekltlek. Ble Pllle pelnO uelkettl llulepeO nuaekoll. Vle pehuOOe lek pep Glup enl Zllelpell ukue en pekleleu upel Pleteu euenplukeu?

Blelppeu: ZeuekOet huOOl Oeu ulekl epelelu, peuu Onpp lek etp Btlelult eulpekelpeu, up lek Olek Oeekluutt pnlekpelee. Blepep Pepeltulp ueek FelOuule, pepp lek unl teuae aeuna pep VelnO elhtoleu Onpp nup peuu vllp ep OllOeekeu, heuu lek Oll aellupl eppekOluheu. lek heuu uuu OelueO Glup elvelleu, pelu NlOOel entenlonOeu – epel ulekl, pepp ep pep ukue Znlleu nup Gunlleu lnl. Guuttlhle kelQeu ulekl, pepp lek etp Btlelulelt pekteekl plu. Bep aekoll enO BeOltleutepeu peen.

When Your Own Child Is Strange To You And Your Child Feels The Same To You By Oliver Dierssen

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Gtluel Blelppeu, “Veuu pll pelu elaeuep Glup tleOp lpl nup ep pelueO Glup Oll pll aeuenpu aekl. Vle enp Pptekunua uenep Uelleneu eulplekl”, Zupelh, 0900

Ueleupletlnuapkluvelp: PO i2. Ghlupel tlepl Gtluel Blelppeu lu Feuuuuel enp pelueO Pnek.

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